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Sibling Wars & Aging Parents: Everybody Is Part Of The Problem

By blog contributor, Joy Loverde

An unfortunate truth about family caregiving is that responsibilities between siblings when it comes to the care of parents are often unevenly and unfairly distributed. You can ask for your siblings’ help until you are blue in the face; yet some brothers and sisters flat out refuse to be of assistance or and ignore requests altogether.

If this is happening to you right now, keep this thought in the back of your mind: When you crawl into bed each night, and tuck your tired body under your covers, you, and you alone, have the peace of mind knowing that you are taking good care of the people who raised you. There is no greater reward. You have a kind and loving heart.

But the fact remains. Your siblings refuse to help. Why they don’t do their share of eldercare is a more complicated issue than you may think. Everyone contributes to this situation. Here’s how:

 

The Parent . . .

-wants only this child to care for him or her

-lets sons off the hook and instructs daughters that it’s their “duty”

-drives wedges between children and plays favorites

 

The Family Caregiver . . .

-doesn’t ask for help, rather he or she hints or complains

-isn’t willing to share the parent’s attention with other family members

-wants to prove that he or she is the good, always-giving child

-feels he or she can do the best job

-thinks it takes too much time to explain what is needed

-accepts without question that family caregiving is “woman’s work”

-doesn’t have any energy left to argue with parents or siblings

The Sibling . . .

-denies that parents need care and chooses to ignore the situation

-lives far away

-has his or her own major problems and is incapable of being helpful at this time

-wants to get back at the main family caregiver for any number of reasons

-is focused on after-death issues, including inheritance

When you take a look at the above list, can you see yourself or any of your family members in these roles? If you do, these are action steps you can take if getting help from your siblings is your goal.

The amount of assistance you receive from siblings is largely dependent on your willingness and ability to demand it.
Read “Sibling Wars & Aging Parents – Part 2” Here

This piece first appeared on Silver’s Giving Care.

 

 

Joy Loverde

Joy is the author of the best-seller, The Complete Eldercare Planner (Random House, 2009) and Who Will Take Care Of Me When I Am Old? (Da Capo, 2017). Joy’s media credits include the Today Show, CBS Early Show, CNN, and National Public Radio among many others. Joy also serves as a mature-market consultant and spokesperson for manufacturers, corporations, law firms, financial institutions, insurance, associations, healthcare organizations, senior housing, and other members of the fast-growing eldercare industry. http://www.elderindustry.com/

 

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